a note for the new year

Tail spinning from the threshold of this year into the second decade of our new century feels a bit like a cut-away, free fall scene in the middle of some action thriller. Ten years. It's mind-blowing how much has transpired and how quickly it has passed.

And I feel the acceleration of time like everyone I know. A part of that perception is simply how we gather and assess our memories as we get older. But I also feel that time itself is changing. Or rather, our relationship to it is expanding so that we are able to do more than before in a given space of time, collectively and individually. We're increasingly able to stretch it like a big band of elastic, and when we snap it back we are able to see all these things we fit into this condensed space. Its exhilarating and exhausting.

In the last ten years just with communications technologies alone we have developed new and different relationships with the people we know. And we now have more relationships with people we have never and will never meet than we ever did before. The borders, boundaries and etiquette for this new territory change daily. Our communication devices are our lifelines to our virtual realities. I do sometimes find myself confused by the way it all plays out. I still get thrown when I encounter someone having a very loud, animated conversation with seemingly no one, only to see they are wired into a phone.

As more of our human interactions get funneled thru some type of technological filter, I think it's important to remember to consciously connect with people in our physical presence. To look each other in the eye, to acknowledge their presence. To carry the awareness that connecting with another human is a sacred and irreplaceable act. It is a grace.

As we continue to stretch the elastic band and discover access to places previously unimaginable on the wings of all our new technologies, grab somebody's hand for this slow motion free fall. Wherever the next decade lands us will ultimately be defined by the grace of our humanity.

Peace & Light,
Anne Harris
 

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